by Robbie Claus

Planning a simple wedding is becoming more common and is totally socially acceptable. Many young brides and grooms are foregoing the traditional extravagant weddings and keeping it simple. This doesn’t mean they are foregoing elegance or style, and simple weddings can still be a special day that the bridal party and guests will remember for years to come.

The wedding reception has become the single most expensive part of the event, allowing the bride and groom to come up with innovative and less traditional types of places to have their wedding. Fabulous weddings can be had at beaches, parks and even in your own backyard. Some of the more memorable wedding events I have been to have been at locations that have selected from a romantic place in the hearts of the bride and groom.

I will never forget the bowling alley wedding I attended. This is where the couple met, and for them it was the most unforgettable wedding reception they could ask for. The wedding decorations were all themed with bowling in mind and it was very whimsical in nature. The bridal party all wore matching bowling shoes and the groomsmen attire consisted of bowling shirts under their rented tuxedos. The wedding cake and wedding invitations were all themed for the bowling location as well.

Another simple wedding I attended was in a beautiful park that overlooked a beach near San Diego, Ca. Simple weddings can be so romantic and elegant. The brides dress was billowing in the ocean breeze and the entire wedding party toasted the bride and groom with the finest champagne that was local to the region.

Innovative decorating has adorned many a backyard for the wedding reception. These joyous occasions are sometimes held in the yard of a close relative. More and more brides are choosing this as their primary location since they can spend the savings on catering and flowers.

When planning a simple wedding, it is imperative to voice your desires to the entire family. This will block any pressures to the bride from people wanting her to go into huge debt to have an extravagant wedding that she doesn’t want. The bride and groom’s wishes are paramount and providing their desires are agreed upon then that is all that counts. If they desire to keep the wedding as simple as they can then it is perfectly alright to follow your emotions and try to get everyone involved in making your dream wedding come true.

Simple weddings can allow you to get creative with wedding invitations, your wedding attire, the decorations and entertainment.

A wedding planner or wedding consultant can help plan your wedding as long as you let them know exactly how you want everything. Now is the time to speak up and let it be known that your style is simple, yet memorable.

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